It’s that time of the year again! Get a blanket, hang up the Christmas decorations, grab some gingerbread cookies to eat, and enjoy these gay Christmas movies. There’s nothing quite like cozying up with a gay Christmas movie.
For a long time, holiday movies were dominated by straight stories. Luckily for us, in recent years, there has been more diversity in Christmas movies and movies in general! Right now, there’s a whole list of gay Christmas movies to pick from, and we are going to tell you all about them.
These are the 15+ best gay Christmas movies you have to watch. From heartwarming gay romances, gay family stories, and Christmas drag performances to gay holiday treasure hunts, laugh-out-loud comedies, and gay cowboys, you can find it all here! There’s something for everyone.
Let’s unwrap these best gay Christmas movies! Good to know: these are all male-dominated gay Christmas movies. Are you looking for lesbian Christmas movies mostly about queer women? Take a look at our article on lesbian Christmas movies.
Top Gay Christmas Movies to Brighten Your Holiday Season
And not just brighten up your holiday season. These gay movies capture the festive spirit and also showcase authentic LGBTQ+ relationships, offering a refreshing and much-needed alternative to the typical heteronormative holiday fare.
- The Christmas House (2020)
Finally, Hallmark listened to the criticism it received online and assured its viewers that better LGBTQ+ representation was to come.
The Christmas House is the first Hallmark movie featuring a gay couple as the main characters! And something we really love is that gay actors also play the gay couple. Jonathan Bennett plays Brandon, and Brad Harder plays Jake.
The two go to Brandon’s partner’s home for the holidays, as his parents have important decisions to make. Little do they know, Brandon and Jake are nervously waiting for a phone call regarding the adoption of a child!
And in December 2021, we got the sequel called The Christmas House 2: Deck Those Halls. Exciting!
- Dashing in December (2020)
This movie feels a lot like Brokeback Mountain, if it were a Christmas movie. It’s a gay cowboy Christmas movie that’s super adorable.
Wyatt Burwall returns home for the holiday season and wants to convince his mom to sell the family’s ranch in Colorado. But then Wyatt falls for the ranch hand Heath, who wants to save the property.
What will happen to the ranch? And with Wyatt and Heath?
You can watch Dashing in December on Prime Video.
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- Spoiler Alert (2022)
Starring the amazing Jim Parsons, Ben Aldridge, and Sally Field. Spoiler Alert is about a beautiful love story. Though, I need to warn you, as it’s also an emotional one. Get those Christmas tissues, a blanket, and someone’s hand to hold.
What is this gay Christmas movie about? TV journalist Michael and photographer Kit meet and fall in love together, though their lives and relationships transform when one of them gets ill.
As Christmas plays a very important part in their relationship, and we get to see multiple holiday scenes and traditions, it’s a must-watch during the Christmas period.
- The Holiday Exchange (2024)
Next on this list of the best gay Christmas movies is The Holiday Exchange. And it’s a new gay Christmas movie!
You probably know or have heard of the classic 2006 romantic-comedy The Holiday, starring Kate Winslet, Jude Law, Cameron Diaz, and Jack Black. Well, The Holiday Exchange is the gay version of that movie!
Wilde decides to swap houses with Oliver through an LGBTQ+ app after he sells his company and faces the holidays as a single man. Both Wilde and Oliver meet some handsome locals during their visits to sunny Los Angeles and the charming town of Brilfax.
I love movies and stories like this one!
- The Bitch Who Stole Christmas (2021)
Created by the creators of RuPaul’s Drag Race, this drag-centered and campy Christmas movie is filled with queer humor, drama, and over-the-top frolics.
Starring RuPaul, Brooke Lynn Hytes, Ginger Minj, Manila Luzon, Kim Petras, Michelle Visage, Kylie Sonique Love, Krysta Rodriguez, and Andy Ridings, among many other celebrities and RuPaul’s Drag Race contestants.
The Bitch Who Stole Christmas is probably the draggiest Christmas movie that’s ever been made.
It’s about the fashion journalist Olivia St. LaPelle, who’s sent on an assignment to a Christmas-obsessed town. While digging up a story, she gets involved in the town’s winter ball competition.
These festivities aren’t only happy and exciting; things get pretty dark when some people try to ruin the holiday season.
You can watch The Bitch Who Stole Christmas on Amazon Prime Video.
- A Christmas to Treasure (2022)
This gay Christmas movie features a real-life gay couple! The Broadway actors Kyle Dean Massey and Taylor Frey play the lead roles, showcasing their gay love on screen. I love that!
A Christmas to Treasure is a gay Lifetime Christmas movie and a classic holiday love story. We follow a group of friends as they reunite in their hometown after their beloved old neighbor passes away. They go on a holiday treasure hunt and relive childhood memories together.
And the treasure hunt also rekindles a romantic gay park between Everett and Austin, played by Taylor Frey and Kyle Dean Massey.
Will the hidden treasure be found? And will the romantic spark between Everett and Austin blossom?
- A Jenkins Family Christmas (2021)
Black Entertainment Television (BET) has already produced lesbian Christmas movies, The Christmas Lottery, in 2020 and The Christmas Clapback in 2022.
In 2021, the cable channel also created A Jenkins Family Christmas, a heartwarming Christmas drama about loss, family, conflict, and acceptance.
In the movie, we follow the two sisters, Beverly and Baneatta. After their father passes, they are navigating Christmas together with the rest of the family. Secrets and family issues come up, and tension rises. Can they all carry on the traditional Christmas traditions?
Baneatta’s son, Kenny, is gay and wants to introduce his boyfriend, Logan, to the family. However, Baneatta is hesitant about this and doesn’t want to acknowledge the relationship between Kenny and Logan fully.
Will all this conflict and chaos drive them apart or together?
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- The Holiday Sitter (2022)
More LGBT Christmas movies starring Jonathan Bennett! The Holiday Sitter is a 2022 Hallmark movie with not only a gay storyline and two gay lead actors, but also a whole queer creative team; how amazing.
The movie is about Sam babysitting his niece and nephew during the holiday. The handsome neighbor, Jason, helps Sam out.
And you can probably guess what will happen next!
- Make the Yuletide Gay (2009)
An openly gay college student returns to his parental home for the holidays. Yet, he isn’t out at home.
And when his boyfriend suddenly shows up, things are bound to get interesting… Yup, it’s a familiar plot, but this movie is from 2009, so it was the first!
You can watch this gay Christmas movie on Prime Video.
- Some Kind Of Christmas (2020)
Gary decides to spend the holidays with family for the first time in five years. However, just before Christmas, on their anniversary, Gary’s boyfriend breaks up with him.
Pretty harsh if you ask me.
A good friend then advises him to hire someone to take home for Christmas; the perfect stand-in boyfriend to meet his family. ‘Ken’ joins him back home, and Gary needs to deal with his broken heart, unresolved childhood trauma, and sibling rivalry.
It’s definitely some kind of Christmas! Watch the movie on Amazon Prime Video.
- Single All the Way (2021)
Single All the Way is the first time Netflix has made such a movie (it’s about time, right? With all the LGBTQ+ content on the platform?!), and we loved watching it.
The romantic comedy is about Peter, who persuades his best friend Nick to join him for the holidays with his family. But not just as a friend, but as his boyfriend. So that Peter can avoid his family’s judgment about being single.
Little does Peter know his mom wants to set him up on a blind date with the hot fitness instructor, James! What to do, what to do…
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- Christmas on Cherry Lane (2023)
Jonathan Bennett must be the gay Christmas King of the gay Hallmark Christmas movies?! After the Hallmark gay Christmas movies The Christmas House (part 1 + 2), and The Holiday Sitter, he also stars in the gay Christmas movie Christmas on Cherry Lane.
In Christmas on Cherry Lane, we follow three different couples and their stories centered around love, family, and new beginnings.
One of those couples is the gay couple, Mike and Zian. They have the chance to unexpectedly expand their family, all while having 14 guests over for Christmas. And to make it even more chaotic, their kitchen is being remodeled.
How will everything go at 7 Cherry Lane as the three couples navigate these turning points in their lives? Christmas on Cherry Lane showcases a perfectly imperfect Christmas season.
- Shared Rooms (2016)
Shared Rooms is an independent Christmas movie by the creator of Make the Yuletide Gay. In this movie, we follow multiple gay men celebrating Christmas and New Year’s Eve together in Los Angeles.
We get to see three interconnected stories about roommates falling in love, a couple taking in a gay teen who’s kicked out of his own home, and about a casual online hookup that unexpectedly deepens.
The gay movie begins on Christmas Day and continues for the following week until New Year’s Eve when everything ties together.
I love this movie’s unique and fresh perspective on identity, new beginnings, love, family dynamics, and chosen family.
- You Should Meet My Son! (2010)
More gay Christmas movies! You Should Meet My Son is a heartwarming comedy about the conservative Mae Davis and her spinster sister Rose, who are trying to find the perfect girlfriend for Mae’s son Brian.
When they accidentally find out Brian’s gay, they are determined to find him the perfect boyfriend, instead of a girlfriend, just for the holidays.
I love how the mother is conservative and shocked at the beginning, though she doesn’t reject her own son. She thinks he deserves all the love and happiness in the world.
While finding the perfect boyfriend for her son, Mae and Rose dive into the LGBTQ+ world and community, including visiting gay bars, online gay dating, drag queens, and leather men.
There’s also a sequel, You Should Meet My Son 2!, which was released in 2018. This movie is about a gay wedding and a religious mother trying to stop it.
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- The Christmas Setup (2020)
Not only does Hallmark listen to their viewers, but Lifetime does, too. First, we got gay Christmas movie The Christmas Setup and then the lesbian Christmas movie Under the Christmas Tree!
Lifetime included a gay kiss in a movie before (Twinkle All the Way), but The Christmas Setup is Lifetime’s first movie about a gay romance, portrayed by a real-life gay couple!
The story is about Hugo and Patrick, who grow close together during the holiday season. But when Hugo gets offered a promotion in London, he must decide what matters most: his new love or career.
- Holiday Heart (2000)
In Holiday Heart, we see a gay drag queen named Holiday, who takes in and forms a bond with struggling single mother Wanda and her daughter Niki during the holidays.
The actor Ving Rhames stars as the character Holiday. You might know him from other movies, such as Pulp Fiction, Mission Impossible, and Zombie Apocalypse.
It’s a touching drama movie about compassion, family complexities, friendship, chosen family, and support systems.
Holiday Heart is one of the first movies, and maybe the first, to feature a drag queen in a holiday film. And was nominated for a Golden Globe and by GLAAD for an Outstanding TV Movie Media Award.
Happy Holigays! Enjoy these best gay Christmas movies and shows.
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